Last updated: Jul 28, 2026
These Guidelines are part of the Terms of Service and they spell out what's allowed here, what isn't, and what happens when someone crosses a line.
If you're reading this because a moderator just muted you, section 7 is the part you want.
This is an explicit adult site. Sex talk, kink, nudity, and cam are the point — nobody here is going to ask you to tone it down.
It works for one reason: everyone in the room is an adult who chose to be here, and keeps choosing. The moment you take something from someone who didn't agree to it — their consent, their images, their attention after they said no — you're not doing kink anymore, and you're done here.
That's the whole document. Everything below is the detail.
You must be 18 or older. There are no exceptions and nothing to negotiate.
Not 18 and mature for your age. Not 17 and nearly there. Eighteen. Terms of Service section 2 has the rest.
Adult sexual content also has to be legal where you are. That's on you to know.
These aren't suggestions. Every one of them gets content removed, and several end your access on the first instance. It's the same list as section 4 of the Terms, with the detail that fits on this page.
There is no version of this we tolerate and no framing that makes it acceptable — not fiction, not roleplay, not “she's 19 in the story,” not drawings, not a joke to see what happens. Never, under any circumstances:
Images uploaded here are checked against a database of known child sexual abuse material before anything is stored. A match means the upload is refused, the file is never written to our storage, and a record is kept with the file's hashes and your account details. Don't test this.
If you believe a minor is on the site, report them with the Minor reason and stop talking to them. Don't investigate it yourself, and don't keep the conversation going to gather proof.
This is a kink site. Non-consent is a genre here and we're not banning the genre. What's banned is the real thing. The line matters, so here it is in full.
Negotiated play is fine. CNC, rape play, D/s, degradation, humiliation, findom, pet play, bratting — anything you and the other person agreed to. Two adults who negotiate a scene and then play it out have broken no rule here, however dark the scene reads to someone scrolling past.
Get the yes first. Before you take things somewhere intense, ask. “Are you into CNC?” costs you one line. Opening on a stranger with an unnegotiated rape scene, a degradation monologue, or a hard dom voice is a violation on its own — even if they never answer, even if they never say no. You don't get to decide someone consented because they didn't object fast enough.
A no ends it. So does a hard limit, a safeword, “stop,” “not into that,” going quiet, leaving the conversation, or blocking you. Any of those ends the scene immediately, in character or out of it. If they say stop and you keep going, you're not topping anyone — you're the reason this section exists.
Stepping out of a scene always works. Anyone can drop character at any moment to say they're done. Treating that as part of the scene, or telling someone a real submissive wouldn't tap out, is coercion. So is pressuring someone into a scene by calling them vanilla, boring, or a tease.
Never negotiable, whatever anyone agreed to: making someone believe a scene is real when it isn't, getting anything out of someone under threat, or passing real coercion off as content.
Nudes, screenshots, or recordings of a person who didn't consent to them being shared here. That covers:
If intimate images of you are on this site, don't file a copyright notice and don't wait in a queue. Email contact@kinkchatrooms.com with “urgent removal” in the subject line. Those go first. What to put in that email, and what happens after, is on the Content Removal page.
No prostitution, escorting, or trafficking — advertising it, arranging it, or recruiting for it. In practice: no rates, no menus, no “generous?”, no booking links, no “in town this week,” no selling access to yourself somewhere else, and no recruiting anyone into any of it. This one is federal law, not a house preference.
Talking your way into someone's hotel room for free isn't this. Charging for it is.
Being blunt, filthy, or mean inside a scene both of you agreed to isn't harassment. Following someone who left that scene is.
No attacks on people over race, ethnicity, national origin, religion, disability, gender, gender identity, or sexual orientation. That means slurs used as weapons, hate symbols, and arguing that a group doesn't belong here.
Preferences are allowed. Saying what you're into and what you're not — race, body type, age, gender — is a preference, and nobody is entitled to your attention. Framing it as contempt for the group is a different thing, and the difference is obvious in practice: “not my type” versus what people write when they want someone to feel small.
Trans, non-binary, and crossdressing people are welcome here and use the rooms that fit them. Arguing otherwise, or digging for someone's birth gender, falls under this section.
No offering, sourcing, or arranging sales. No dealer contacts, no price lists, no “who's got.” Talking about your own use isn't a sale; anything that reads like a transaction is. Pressuring anyone to take something, or offering to bring something to a meet, counts as a sale here.
Sending the same opener to a few people you'd like to talk to is normal. Working your way down the room list is not.
No probing for vulnerabilities, no load testing, no reverse-engineering the site or its API, no working around rate limits, and nothing that interferes with anyone else's use of the site. If you find a real security problem, tell us at contact@kinkchatrooms.com — we'd rather hear it from you.
Don't pose as another user, as our staff, or as a moderator. That includes “I'm a mod, send me X” and any claim that you can get someone unbanned. Don't pass off someone else's photos as your own.
Playing a character isn't impersonation. Playing a specific real person to fool someone is.
Consent between adults settles most things here. It doesn't settle these. Whatever anyone agreed to, and however it's framed:
The Terms say it in one line: don't use the Service in a way that breaks a law that applies to you. This is that line, spelled out.
Broadcasting. Your cam, your call — inside section 3. Everyone in the room can see it, including people who walked in a second ago, so treat it as public. Never on cam:
Watching. Don't record, screenshot, or re-post a cam — that's section 3.3. Don't demand a face, a body part, or proof of anything. Nobody owes you a show for watching, and asking someone to prove they're real by doing something on cam is pressure, not verification.
A moderator can cut a cam. If a stream breaks these rules, a moderator can end it on the spot without warning, and you'll be told your cam was cut. Depending on what was on it, that may be the end of it — or the start of section 7.
Blocking is the tool. You never need a reason and you don't owe anyone an explanation. When you block someone:
Being blocked is an answer. It means stop — not “try a better opener.” Making another account to get around a block is a rule of its own, and it's the fastest way to lose both accounts.
Contact filters are the same answer, set in advance. If someone only takes DMs from friends, from people in their room, or from registered accounts, that's their decision. Working around it — or badgering them in a room because their DMs are closed — is the behavior this section is about.
One person, one account. Extra accounts used to get around a block, a mute, or a ban all count as evasion.
There's a Report action on every message, DM, bio, profile, photo, profile picture, and live cam. Pick a reason, add details if they help, and send it. Reporting is private — the person you report isn't told who filed it.
The five reasons are fixed:
What happens next. Reports go to moderation. Some are screened automatically before a human sees them — a filter can remove an obvious case straight away, and a reported image can be scanned for signs the person in it is underage. When several separate reports land on the same content, it comes down automatically. You get a notification once your report has been handled.
Reporting isn't a way to win an argument. Filing reports to go after someone is harassment, and it's treated as harassment.
Here's everything a moderator can do. There is nothing else on the list.
A ban follows your email address and your device, not your IP address. Signing up again with a new email on the same phone won't work, and neither will the same email on a new phone. We deliberately don't ban by IP: mobile networks share one address between hundreds of people, so an IP ban would shut out strangers who did nothing.
A suspended account can't be deleted. Deleting and re-registering would wipe a ban, so the delete button is off while a sanction is active. Section 8 is what to do instead.
Which one you get depends on what you did. Parts of section 3 — anything in 3.1, intimate images of someone who didn't agree, paid sex — end your access on the first instance, with no warning. Most of the rest starts smaller.
Email contact@kinkchatrooms.com with the username on the account and roughly when it happened. We read these, and moderators do get things wrong.
Two things worth knowing before you write:
Legal notices, copyright claims, and anything from a lawyer go to legal@kinkchatrooms.com instead.
We may update these Guidelines. When we do, we change the “Last updated” date at the top of this page, and for material changes we give notice on the site before they take effect. Continuing to use the Service after that means you accept the new Guidelines.
These Guidelines are part of the Terms of Service — where the two ever disagree, the Terms win.